Komentarze: 1 854

  1. Abdul Rahman
    Abdul Rahman
    2 miesięcy temu

    That laid back attitude is what pulls ya in. I have also noticed he is a man of few words. No cracking jokes, no extra fluffy words. Every thing he says is on point. Only Talking when its necessary is a great way to put more weight on your words!

    1. Michael Wilson
      Michael Wilson
      6 dni temu

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    2. Patrick Bateman
      Patrick Bateman
      9 dni temu

      I try to talk minimally from now!

    3. Fish Butt
      Fish Butt
      12 dni temu

      ​@John Moore Agree. Being silent and cool is the biggest giveaway for me that someone tries to be cool when they are not. Can you imagine all men no going around trying to mimic this video and the body language of actors. It becomes quite pathetic when you think about it. Be you.

    4. Luc Explores
      Luc Explores
      14 dni temu

      He always crack jokes in serious situations though?

    5. Ricardo
      Ricardo "La Máquina de Humo" Caruso Lombardi
      19 dni temu

      Also, he's a very handsome dude

  2. Chacarron91
    Chacarron91
    2 miesięcy temu

    - Slow And Relax Men Movement - Strong Eye Contact - Not Reactive To Hostility - Be As Big As Your Audience - Show Conviction With Your Words - Show Conviction With Your Tone - Speak Slowly And Use Pauses - Use Carrot/Stick Motivation

    1. social ott
      social ott
      22 dni temu

      @JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ I am somewhat? I made my forensic interviewer cry even though she was hiding it. This was quite recent but I appreciate it. and I am slowly working on this no matter! my family is used to pain and suffering typically since we always have been on the lower side of society, becoming the back breaking heavy lifters. But I’m proud. I know I could body slam someone compared to the average person, so it helps honestly

    2. JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ
      JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ
      24 dni temu

      @social ott but you can work on that. Don’t think it’s something you can’t overcome!

    3. JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ
      JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ
      24 dni temu

      @social ott if what you’re saying is true. That’s a whole other different situation. You need therapy and other things alike. That’s just fuckin horrible.

    4. JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ
      JØDI RØLLIN 4ØETY JØ
      24 dni temu

      @Zestyr dude stop. People are way stronger than that. I hate how just because people go through trauma like everybody else they all of a sudden can’t do anything. They can do it if they really want and practice it everyday! Stop making people seem weak.

  3. peter blood
    peter blood
    Miesiąc temu

    Tommy had something most people don't. He had no fear of death as he had faced it many times during the war. He, basically, had nothing to lose as he felt he was living on borrowed time anyway. Combine that lack of fear with an analytical mind and you have a very strong personality indeed.

    1. Communism Wins. Fatality.
      Communism Wins. Fatality.
      22 godzin temu

      He also dodged bullets left and right. A lot of it was luck and the rest was putting in a hell of a lot of stressful effort. His family suffered, sometimes died, under it. Tommy Shelby is NOT a good role model. He's a cautionary tale.

    2. zero tolerance
      zero tolerance
      8 dni temu

      @Samson 92 cap

    3. Kayleigh Schofield
      Kayleigh Schofield
      17 dni temu

      very cool series, violent and interesting

    4. THE SENDER
      THE SENDER
      18 dni temu

      Your right everyone Deep down in their final moments is afraid of death When it comes knocking on your door You will be afraid

    5. Average P3rson
      Average P3rson
      26 dni temu

      @Just Livin He's not flexing his depression. Depression often brings a person to the point that they just don't care anymore. Suicidal thoughts is often the symptoms of depression and when you break out of it, there is a chance that you won't really fear dying. But not all of them as most of us are afraid of the pain and suffering. Having experience suicidal thoughts and almost did one. That moment taught me to not afraid of death because it is a natural part of life. And by the way if I really want to, I can just end my life with a valid reason of course, at least I want my death to be meaningful and not just unlive in order to win a discussion in the internet.

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    David D. Vance
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  5. Samrat Dey
    Samrat Dey
    Miesiąc temu

    Thomas shelby was a world war 1 veteran in the series. He was a tunneler, a job which requires you to operate in the worst possible conditions. He was a gypsy who lived his childhood in poverty. And all of this hardships coupled with horrors of the war made tommy who he was. Merely imitating his reactions to certain situations won't make you a tough guy. You have live your life out of your comfort zone to transform your persona into that of someone like thomas shelby.

    1. User and Researcher
      User and Researcher
      10 dni temu

      Yep, it's pretty much acting like someone you're not.

    2. goodlife420
      goodlife420
      11 dni temu

      thats what I thought too this video is going to get people into problems

  6. A Ingle
    A Ingle
    2 miesięcy temu

    Dude absolutely played his character to perfection. Exactly like someone who’s been through a lot

    1. Kayleigh Schofield
      Kayleigh Schofield
      17 dni temu

      yes, they chose the right actors

  7. Vali Izzatullayev
    Vali Izzatullayev
    2 miesięcy temu

    "The nearer man comes to a calm mind, the closer he is to strength. " - Marcus Aurelius. Confidence comes from within the person. All these body movements just naturally comes when you are in that mode

    1. Ryosuke1208
      Ryosuke1208
      Dzień temu

      @Fonda William That newton had an irrational belief at that time doesn't mean he is not a genius for all the stuff he did on maths and physics

    2. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      Dzień temu

      @ryosuke. No need to be contumelious.

    3. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      Dzień temu

      @Ryosuke. Why r u accusing me of add hominem when I was merely agreeing with u. U see how we have almost identical comments and the same opinion? Newton was into alchemy which is idiotic and a roman dictator would rarely b calm so why r we arguing?

    4. Ryosuke1208
      Ryosuke1208
      13 dni temu

      @Fonda William Ad hominem.

    5. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      13 dni temu

      And your going to quote a Roman dictator and creep on calmness? Piss off.

  8. Agente Peperoni
    Agente Peperoni
    Miesiąc temu

    You forgot to mention that Tommy has breakdowns after some of these scenes, releasing great amounts of stress he felt during periods where he shows himself as being "calm". And he drinks a lot & smokes a lot until the last season.

    1. lott nio
      lott nio
      13 godzin temu

      A should consider another career if this causes breakdowns and drinking. It’s just acting.

    2. Gr8sc0tt
      Gr8sc0tt
      10 dni temu

      @King unless said position is extremely rare to find qualified people

    3. Tricky
      Tricky
      Miesiąc temu

      He probably didn't mention this as it can a does spoil character behavior

    4. BMXTHENICS
      BMXTHENICS
      Miesiąc temu

      Nothing is free. I can be the calm dude in situations where everyone is running for their lives. Sometimes stress hits you after

    5. Nick Moore
      Nick Moore
      Miesiąc temu

      @King Agreed, if you're as good as you claim then you are the one calling the shots, not your boss who'll still be sitting in the same office 20 years from now.

  9. Gabriella Meat Tray
    Gabriella Meat Tray
    Miesiąc temu

    1. Slow and relaxed movements 2. Hold eye contact in conflict 3. Hold to show you aremt intimdated. 4. Down to descalate, to diffuse situation without projecting fear or discomfort, break the side every 3-5 seconds 5. Be non reactive to hostility

    1. King Earth
      King Earth
      Dzień temu

      the wanting to show that you aren't intimidated could be due to being intimidated of being seen as intimidated. You can apply this to other aspects as well. Reflection.

  10. Reconnected - Social Mentors
    Reconnected - Social Mentors
    2 miesięcy temu

    Body language goes a long way. Things like: standing tall, taking up more space, not crossing your arms tightly, and making good eye contact. It's the difference between "he looks so awkward" and "he's the strong silent type."

    1. Steven Mosbee
      Steven Mosbee
      9 dni temu

      @Julian both are important and apply to myself.. cannot say the same for you.

    2. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      13 dni temu

      So far as body language goes, crossing your arms, and taking up more space r the exact same identical thing. They both display agression. Did you even graduate with a G.E.D.?

    3. TRUE°NORTH°AFFIRMATIONS
      TRUE°NORTH°AFFIRMATIONS
      25 dni temu

      These are achieved by being aware and practicing until they are habitual

    4. lyndsay crawford
      lyndsay crawford
      Miesiąc temu

      @Dedi Wahyudi a good few acting lessons could turn you into Tommy. He’s never actually in danger. It would be so easy to walk about like the dogs bollocks when you’re only acting. All these tips are BS as soon as someone lands one on you, it’s on! Your primitive fight mode just kicks in.

    5. HearTheBellsRing
      HearTheBellsRing
      Miesiąc temu

      @Marlene Gold Male? Maybe. But ive seen plenty of men do the opposite, i myself am female and i do everything you mentioned about the guys.

  11. Marcus Constantine
    Marcus Constantine
    2 miesięcy temu

    In summary for the average clumsy introvert: 1. Make reasonably long eye contact. Give a little nod if you wanna be not rude. Smile on command if you know how. 2. Move slowly and orderly. Erratic movement, confused hands and excessive head turning will ruin the Shelby vibe. 3. Think before you speak so you can choose the right words and CUT OUT unnecessary things. Talk slowly too.

    1. [REDACTED]
      [REDACTED]
      Miesiąc temu

      Sigma grindset 💪😤

    2. Henry Adams
      Henry Adams
      Miesiąc temu

      @Agni Das deplete their patience, and win

    3. Bon Summers
      Bon Summers
      Miesiąc temu

      @Marcus Constantine Better to be like the Red Fox.

    4. Marcus Constantine
      Marcus Constantine
      Miesiąc temu

      @Agni Das Omg.. having reread my writing, you're absolutely right lol.

    5. Agni Das
      Agni Das
      Miesiąc temu

      so ... be that sloth front desk clerk/secretary at the police station from Zootopia, Gotcha :P

  12. William Stixrud Hagen
    William Stixrud Hagen
    2 miesięcy temu

    Most important lesson of all: Do it for yourself, never do it for being cool to be with!!! It sounds weird, but when you only do it to impress others, you will give them the power over you. You are doing it for them, therefore they are the ones indirectly controlling you, as your main goal is to impress them. Why is that a problem? If you give them all the power, then the power you show using these tips will be «fake», because it will only be something you do to get respect from the ones in power. So you fake being the boss to impress everyone else, and that makes you the weakest, because you must bend to whatever they want from you. You will be more nervous when you give everyone else this power over you. So do it for yourself. That will give you all the power.

    1. 「brocolindo1」
      「brocolindo1」
      Miesiąc temu

      For me is basic stand up to the person the way they stand up to you

    2. Im the Juggernaut
      Im the Juggernaut
      Miesiąc temu

      Well put👏.

  13. Cole
    Cole
    2 miesięcy temu

    One of the biggest things I’ve learned from my father that I may aswell pass onto you guys is to only speak when necessary and if you are an out going loud person that makes a lot of jokes. Usually people look at you as a bit of a goof.

    1. KYLE HUGHES
      KYLE HUGHES
      8 dni temu

      It's sad because others lack character and respect for others, but is very true. It's an American problem

    2. Chaoticlifemaker
      Chaoticlifemaker
      Miesiąc temu

      To be fair that's fine with me. I want to be able to be a goof when I can but also be calm/collected when the situation calls for it.

    3. FdJ
      FdJ
      Miesiąc temu

      i don't usually talk a lot, and I always become nervous especially someone watching me , iam trying to become better i hope I can learn myself

  14. Kevin Gray
    Kevin Gray
    Miesiąc temu

    For point 2, if there's a threat of violence, don't look to the side! Looking downward toward the body, if done purposefully instead of evasively is both tactically and psychologically sound. It's easier to keep a cool head, and by looking for their actions instead of words, it's unnerving for them to continue talking. People think of what they see other people looking at, so instead of reflecting back their own emotion through eyes, they start thinking of the vulnerability of their own body. "You're prepared to hurt my body. Do I really want to go there?" instead of "You feel that way about me! How do I feel about you?" I never did it for psychology, just how I learned to fight. But it's had good de-escalatory effect the times I've done it, which made me think.

    1. Michael Wilson
      Michael Wilson
      6 dni temu

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    2. Kevin Gray
      Kevin Gray
      13 dni temu

      @Fonda William I love The Art of Self-defense, where they ride up on the motorcycle and ask the potential victim if they have a gun before using karate to mug him. It's seems ridiculous, but on the other hand, most people don't know how to respond when put on the spot like that. Most people carrying a weapon of any kind would impulsively move their eyes or hand in that direction. Most people not carrying would give it away. Either way, it improves the odds of singling out a helpless victim.

    3. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      13 dni temu

      FIRST PLACE I LOOK AT EVERYONE IS ALWAYS TO THEIR SIDE, NOT MINE, BECAUSE THAT'S THE MOST LIKELY PLACE TO CARRY A GUN.

  15. Psychology Refresh
    Psychology Refresh
    2 miesięcy temu

    These are some incredibly effective ways to instantly command respect from people: - Be vocal about your flaws - Compliment people around you - Hold your ground - Keep your word - Improve your body language

    1. The Toaster
      The Toaster
      3 dni temu

      @Abraham Rodriguez I know exactly what he's saying though. I am very open about my flaws and not fragile ego'd at all. I have crossed paths with people who will listen to your flaw when you make a light remark about it and take it as weakness that you are open about it. Treating it as though it is an insecurity. Say for example always taking it slow not rushed. You might say in a group "I walk slowly for some but I'll get there in the end. I don't like to rush" Someone might then reaffirm it at every opportunity they get in group settings to try and diminish any credibility by constantly forcing you to deal with it by saying you're so slow all the time or he's so slow you'll be waiting forever..... Or can you go slower than that etc. Or many examples similar. It's extremely exhausting dealing with people who are combative for absolutely no reason other than they possibly feel threatened by you having more presence than them. So I get why sometimes it is not good to admit your flaws to certain people that have become accustomed to using them as weapons to mask their own insecurity. I know it is just their insecurity. I know it. They know it. I don't want to have to keep calling someone out every 30mins when they repeatedly keep bringing up the same point though if I can just keep my mouth shut from the get go and everyone stays civilised.

    2. Fish Butt
      Fish Butt
      12 dni temu

      ​@Alucard I actually understand his point. Being vocal about flaws is not always good. Even that takes preparation, because you need to be able to counter any attacks on you on things you may be insecure about. The deranged filth in society will most certainly use it against you, in random encounters, at work or even in a bad relationship on a daily basis breaking you down. But if you ever do reveal your flaws you will have to learn to own them.

    3. Robert
      Robert
      14 dni temu

      Well said.

    4. TRUE°NORTH°AFFIRMATIONS
      TRUE°NORTH°AFFIRMATIONS
      25 dni temu

      I am great because I PRACTICE BEING GREAT

  16. Pradeep Dp
    Pradeep Dp
    Miesiąc temu

    - Slow And Relax Men Movement - Strong Eye Contact - Not Reactive To Hostility - Be As Big As Your Audience - Show Conviction With Your Words - Show Conviction With Your Tone - Speak Slowly And Use Pauses - Use Carrot/Stick Motivation Recently I had read a book from Amazon titled “Qualities to rise like Thomas Shelby” and it was quite good and useful, actually.

    1. BAIT
      BAIT
      Miesiąc temu

      Thank you very much man, I didn't expect this much support from you readers, and please don't forget to write a review for the book😉.

  17. Mikhaella
    Mikhaella
    Miesiąc temu

    Interesting breakdown as always! I have a hard time talking slow and pausing at certain points in conversation because I've gotten used to being interrupted and cut off.

  18. Yash kawade
    Yash kawade
    17 dni temu

    The only character that I will compare to Tommy is John wick. He's quieter than anyone and holds great respect in his community. Now I believe he has earned that respect by his actions(fighting), but he's also not some crazy assassin who just kills anyone. He also speaks when he feels the need otherwise he's just a straight face but also shows his confidence.

  19. PRITISH BOSE
    PRITISH BOSE
    Miesiąc temu

    having eye contact does not mean escalation, it may avoid the same. The person in front may want to assault you and is just looking for a moment when you is off guard to go for it. But looking right back at your aggressor would mean the person in front can't catch you off guard.

    1. KYLE HUGHES
      KYLE HUGHES
      8 dni temu

      Personally eye contact is awkward and pointless to me, the only person that would have my eye contact, would be for example my wife. Eye contact is pretty intimate if you ask me, guys looking into another guys eyes, seems like a waste, if one can listen and continue engaging in work or recriational activity simultaneously. You would stop and give your spouse all of your attention so much so you look into their eyes and focus, stopping anything else that's currently happening. I hope this perspective helps.

  20. ArtByLeia
    ArtByLeia
    Miesiąc temu

    I know Conan has been a topic before, but can you guys commit a full video just to his personality? I feel like he's so charismatic and lovable he just stands out like crazy, I'd love to hear your guys' take

  21. Butcher Shoppe Quartet
    Butcher Shoppe Quartet
    2 miesięcy temu

    Often, you can identify the dominant person in a group by the fact their movements are less, slower and more deliberate and they can be the ones with the least to say or prove.

  22. Jon
    Jon
    Miesiąc temu

    3:55 On the thing with upwards inflections, it's really important to point out that certain accents, especially accents found in the UK, quite often use upwards inflections at the end of sentences, e.g. the Liverpudlian accent or the Glaswegian accent, and actually, even the West Midlands/"Black Country" accent that Tommy is supposed to have has upwards inflections at the end of sentences, but these accents don't imply that the speaker is unsure at all. I can imagine a lot of Americans being confused by this lol although I think the "Vally Girl" accent found in LA is similar, think the Kardashians lol.

    1. Jon
      Jon
      Miesiąc temu

      ​@SmokingBirds I'm not sure if you're agreeing or not but yes, that's what I was saying. It would be a mistake to read into certain accents in this way.

    2. SmokingBirds
      SmokingBirds
      Miesiąc temu

      And The Valley girl accent doesn’t make you appear very confident and competent, does it? Just because the accent is like this, doesn’t mean it loses its inherent effect on people. Especially those who are not used to it. In Germany most accents make you appear less competent than standard high German. Even though it may sound normal to those who are used to the accent.

  23. Dre Augustus
    Dre Augustus
    Miesiąc temu

    “and if you lie, i will know.” spoken like a true God

  24. Mathias Vibeto
    Mathias Vibeto
    2 miesięcy temu

    While i think Tommy Shelby is an fascinating and cool character, i also think it is important to differentiate fiction from reality. In Peaky Blinders he knows his place and does things that somehow work wonders and miracles. This character has a fictional history and his nature is more than likely purely based on what the creators of the show wanted it to be, so it can be captivating. Who in his right mind would behave like him and get away with it? Everything is pre determined in the show. You're NEVER gonna be either one. You is the only real thing. Not the character Cillian Murphy portrays. Realistically, If you were put under the pressure Tommy has faced, you'd be dead before you realized it. It's like doing an analysis on Scarface. Sure it's fun, interesting and fascinating but not close to the reality of OUR world. This is just my humble opinion. Don't compare yourself to none other than you. However, is this a cool analysis of Thomas? Absolutely.

    1. Nissrin
      Nissrin
      13 godzin temu

      Try living in Vancouver u were 4 out of ten males is forced to behave and think like Tommy..just to fit in

    2. Gr8sc0tt
      Gr8sc0tt
      10 dni temu

      I mean even then, it's some good pointers, especially in first impressions/meeting people. Not necessarily in the sense that you should go fight in a war and behave erratically without remorse or conscience but being a bit slower in movements and holding eye contact/using your hands to gesture a little when speaking in a bigger crowd etc.

    3. Rontala Mahender
      Rontala Mahender
      15 dni temu

      Underrated!!!

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    - Slow And Relax Men Movement - Strong Eye Contact - Not Reactive To Hostility - Be As Big As Your Audience - Show Conviction With Your Words - Show Conviction With Your Tone - Speak Slowly And Use Pauses - Use Carrot/Stick Motivation

  26. Dj shadow Dogger
    Dj shadow Dogger
    Miesiąc temu

    In very short words, this is about having a relaxed-body, non-reactive to danger, choices of words, and being strong. 4 strong elements, 4 important elements.

  27. clifton moore
    clifton moore
    2 miesięcy temu

    His presence Command's attention, his energy can be felt by everyone in the room.

    1. 7077 Badamgarav
      7077 Badamgarav
      2 miesięcy temu

      His aura hits different

  28. Ana Bautista
    Ana Bautista
    11 dni temu

    1. He has slow, relaxed movements. 2. He is comfortable holding eye contact, even during conflict. 3. He is non-reactive to hostility. 4. Be as big as your audience. 5. Show conviction with your words. 6. Show conviction with your tone. 7. Speak slowly and use pauses between words. 8. Use carrot / stick motivation.

  29. Greg Bors
    Greg Bors
    2 miesięcy temu

    Yeah, Cillian Murphy is always charismatic, because he’s a great actor.

    1. Michael Wilson
      Michael Wilson
      6 dni temu

      ::********🔝🔝🔝🔝🆙 Thâñks før wãtçhīñg Ïñböx thē ñümbêr åbøvê ī gôt sömēthîñg tø shōw yåh********.........🥰

    2. Carlos
      Carlos
      10 dni temu

      The video is about to act😭😭

    3. NarcøleptiK
      NarcøleptiK
      11 dni temu

      Yeah we get it greg

    4. French Guiana-South America
      French Guiana-South America
      23 dni temu

      Best comment!

    5. Ming Mongo
      Ming Mongo
      24 dni temu

      That, and the character kills a shitload of people.

  30. Lucifer Morningstar
    Lucifer Morningstar
    2 miesięcy temu

    I would love a more in-depth guide on eye contact. Maybe it’ll only be 3 minutes long, but something that includes: how long to hold eye contact depending on interaction, casual, talking with a boss/teacher, when meeting someone for the first time, and when just walking past someone. Where to look away and if you should quickly look back into their eyes and hoe long to look away etc.

    1. DR WorDz
      DR WorDz
      Miesiąc temu

      It was in the video we just watched. Exactly answering those questions.

    2. Agni Das
      Agni Das
      Miesiąc temu

      You cannot and should not determine eye contact based on some random metric. It's all situational. You have to develop the quality to be able to understand and feel it out Comes with awareness practice. Never comes without it.

    3. SvpremeTV罐
      SvpremeTV罐
      Miesiąc temu

      Honestly me personally I’m terrible at eye contact when I don’t really have much to say, simply uninterested or uncomfortable but going out more socializing helps a lot. I work in SoHo in a clothing store and honestly I’ve improved so much on eye contact and interacting w people and getting out that nervous habit. I also noticed when I get high my eye contact and social skills are terrible

  31. Alex R
    Alex R
    14 dni temu

    As an introverted person, I’ve learned that the very first point he made about having slow movements is true. Before, I used to rush to do things, making it clear that I was always in a hurry. I started to be meticulous about everything, and people who I later befriended said I seemed confident. It works lol

  32. Indoor Nepenthes
    Indoor Nepenthes
    2 miesięcy temu

    I've been doing the Carrot / stick strategy my whole life without even knowing that it was actually a thing. It's very powerful psychologically.

  33. Johanna Borlein
    Johanna Borlein
    Miesiąc temu

    I tried training myself a different body language for I while but I stopped because it stressed me out. I'm not a loud speaker and I hate groups where the loudest and most dominant people get to talk the most. I know that I have a lot smart stuff to speak about, but if people prefer nonsense blabla it's their bad. If I don't feel respected and heard I am quiet and that's alright. Gladly there a people who are different and know the basics of respectful and calm conversation with whom I open up and can also talk and talk. Slowly movements, keeping eye contact, that costs so much energy.

    1. B
      B
      Miesiąc temu

      It’s called practice….repetition. Of course it will take a lot of energy it’s something out of your comfort zone

  34. Mrs.Kelly Miracle
    Mrs.Kelly Miracle
    2 miesięcy temu

    Tommy Shelby, one of the best characters ever. of course there's other great but man Cillian killed it.

  35. jahudini
    jahudini
    Miesiąc temu

    Self accountability (Accepting who you are, flawed, owning it and in spite of that, be responsible for yourself), is self validation, a precursor to confidence. Everything falls in place after that; Your walk, your talk and how you react, because you pander to nobody. If you can't hold yourself accountable, you are either a liar or a coward, or both.

  36. trino head
    trino head
    Miesiąc temu

    I feel like these tricks really work coz once in my class my teacher was asking everyone if they have done their notes my sir was only willing to check some students if they have done their homework but ask the question to everyone so I did what I had to do I was sitting there looking at my teacher with a confidential eye like I'm willing to stand and show my homework as soon as my teacher call my name even though I didn't even do my homework that day and you know what's the best part my sir never asked me if I have finished my homework or not.

  37. Beyond the Box
    Beyond the Box
    18 dni temu

    I had a gun held to my head in 8th grade by someone I used to call a friend. I remained extremly calm cuz I knew he wouldn’t pull the trigger. Remained logical, proved to him how he would never get away with it, discussed how could he get rid of the blood, how would he keep it from his parents, and betting the gun doesn’t even have any bullets in it. Keeping a poker face and remaining completely calm and being more logical than the other person will always win.

  38. Samrat Mukherjee
    Samrat Mukherjee
    Miesiąc temu

    He has always been there when Nolan needed a friend doing unintimidating roles in his film with full conviction

  39. Harshad Gentle
    Harshad Gentle
    2 miesięcy temu

    But tbf i think Tommys absence of fearing death adds on to his confidence and ability to appear calm in serious situations as the reality of things, Tommy is very incapable of controlling his life (well ig someone who hasn't watched the show would be able to understand your perspective better)but besides the point, his charisma is undoubtedly impressive

    1. Harshad Gentle
      Harshad Gentle
      24 dni temu

      @Matias Yeah, Tommy after the war is arguably "testing the game of life", and only lives to see how big his empire can really become, after all he's already welcomed death into his realm and isn't afraid to die.

    2. Matias
      Matias
      25 dni temu

      This right here, this is the real reason of his behaviour, since the beggining of the show this is his philosophy of life, he died in the war with his team, now everything after that it's extra, you can never lose from that viewpoint.

  40. Marcelo Silveira
    Marcelo Silveira
    Miesiąc temu

    2:40 honestly there is something calming from having a gun pressed against your head, I don't know if it is the finality of it, the certainty that there is no "if only I had done this!" moment later on or what, but I have never being as calm as for the brief moment I had a 9mm pointed, point blank, against my forehead, and I'm usually an anxious person.

  41. Strawberry Creme
    Strawberry Creme
    Miesiąc temu

    I think this video is really effective, although I think it’s important to break down why we do the things we already do (body language). We can’t do without knowing why we feel the need to do.

    1. Григорий Петроченко
      Григорий Петроченко
      Miesiąc temu

      скорее всего, это заложено природой, когда были инстинкты, чтоб нравиться противоположному полу и показывать другим так сказать "сородичам", что мы испытываем

  42. HazaHyperion
    HazaHyperion
    Miesiąc temu

    Basically all of these points originate from a source of confidence, and confidence is absolutely essential to attaining a charismatic and respected stance. Even if you're not actually confident, just act so and people will respect you. E.g. If you awkwardly make eye contact with a stranger, don't break away because you feel you're being weird, maintain it briefly, not for long, but long enough that they know that you're not afraid to show that you're comfortable in social situations and when making eye contact.

  43. Amr A
    Amr A
    Miesiąc temu

    Talking slowly, allowing ur mind to not fault with speaking and words I love this one tbh

  44. Simon
    Simon
    Miesiąc temu

    There is a difference in faking confidence and then knowing who/what you are.

  45. Jagdamba Tiwari
    Jagdamba Tiwari
    Miesiąc temu

    This is a masterpiece to instantly command respect from people...

  46. Keeping it reals
    Keeping it reals
    2 miesięcy temu

    Love your videos. Especially the ones with Tommy. Classic.

  47. Entity
    Entity
    Miesiąc temu

    Honestly great advice , that I've have long time learn't but this stuff is dangerous, almost got into a couple of fights in my life that I didnt have the energy to deal with

  48. Matt Hartman
    Matt Hartman
    Miesiąc temu

    There is a simpler explanation; - don’t let your emotions dictate your behavior. It’s as simple as that. If you keep your emotions in check and instead act on sound reason and logic while remaining confident in your reasoned choices, that kind of body language will come naturally.

  49. Brianna' SVH
    Brianna' SVH
    Miesiąc temu

    This is so true! I've had people try and tell me how to behave because my temper is weird. Idc! I said what I said, and I'mma react genuinely. If I don't think what you said was funny.... why would I laugh! Go play with someone else! 💯💢💥

  50. NS777
    NS777
    Miesiąc temu

    “How to command respect” Apparently, just know what people are thinking at all times, and don’t have fear.

  51. Alberto Velazquez
    Alberto Velazquez
    Miesiąc temu

    The satisfaction while watching this video realizing you already do all these things 👌

  52. Asadulla Iqbal
    Asadulla Iqbal
    Miesiąc temu

    first rule, workout, look good. dress well, stay well groomed, you automatically gain half of the respect. let your words and body language do the rest

  53. King Dice
    King Dice
    Miesiąc temu

    I get in many hostile situations . If people use these right they actually do work . I've been using this kind of psychology for years and believe me you can have someone twice as big as you back down in a confrontation before it kicks off . There's also other things like how you dress which can play a part .

  54. LITHIUM
    LITHIUM
    2 miesięcy temu

    One way to instantly command/get back respect is by always telling the truth, even if it hurts. But then learning to say it in a way that doesn't offend or make the other person feel more bad than they need to. You can start by writing a list of things you have been lying about to yourself and others.

    1. Bla Bla
      Bla Bla
      13 dni temu

      @Fonda William I wouldn't want to trust either of you two and what makes you think you aren't an abuser. You tell the truth... _when the situation calls for it._ Thát's what will gain you respect.

    2. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      13 dni temu

      DON'T DO THAT. THAT'S EXTREMELY BAD ADVICE. WHY INCRIMINATE YOURSELF WHEN U DONT HAVE TO. DO U WANT TO TRUST AN ABUSER, OR ME?

    3. PiNKi FLOYD
      PiNKi FLOYD
      Miesiąc temu

      @Ameen Nasar meanwhile many will buy the course lol

    4. Yin Yang
      Yin Yang
      Miesiąc temu

      There are people who treat honesty and truthfullness like a weakness. They take advantage if you for it.

    5. BackFireZz
      BackFireZz
      Miesiąc temu

      Sometimes the truth doesnt need to be said mate lol

  55. Maximilian van Grevenbroek
    Maximilian van Grevenbroek
    Miesiąc temu

    This is just so helpfull! Even if I pick up only 1 or 2 of the good habits.

  56. Brolic Rage Like Broly
    Brolic Rage Like Broly
    Miesiąc temu

    Thomas Shelby is one of the Greatest Iconic Lead characters ever in cinema period.. Next to Tony Montana, imo ofc.

  57. Nur die SGE
    Nur die SGE
    Miesiąc temu

    Best rules Hold your word Select ppl u can trust Love your family Be a good example Never fear Cause you boil with water I boil with water I shower with... We are all same.!

  58. jc
    jc
    Miesiąc temu

    the first step to confidence is convincing yourself you are repeat it til you believe and you'll achieve it

  59. Israel Innocent
    Israel Innocent
    Miesiąc temu

    "Why is he (Tommy) able to be so calm and non-reactive under pressure? Because he knows he's not actually in danger." Why? Because he's in a movie.

    1. DAWN REYES
      DAWN REYES
      7 dni temu

      Bravo, finally common sense here. I was getting bored with the "this actor..." I think people missed the content and topic by being sidetracked. lol. Thanks for your obvious statement. 🇨🇦🤗

    2. PRIMROSE
      PRIMROSE
      14 dni temu

      Lol 😂

    3. Jomppexx
      Jomppexx
      Miesiąc temu

      Because he has information. He knows he can give others something they want. In this scenario he cannot be killed as they need him alive. He knows what others fear and don't want to happen. If he were to disappear or end up dead the other Peaky Blinders would see that this fear comes true. So again he is safe.

    4. Man's fashion encyclopedia
      Man's fashion encyclopedia
      Miesiąc temu

      It's because his first love died and then after he went to war , the whole thing the trauma and pain does

    5. Keyboard Warrior
      Keyboard Warrior
      Miesiąc temu

      Man some people are actually dead inside and have gone through so much hell.

  60. Alex Campion
    Alex Campion
    2 miesięcy temu

    Don't forget Tommy stated death in the face in the tunels, he's not afraid to die which helps staying relaxed in many of these situations.

  61. CRASS2047
    CRASS2047
    Miesiąc temu

    I feel like all of this is something a secure, confident person just knows and doesn’t need to be taught.

  62. Future PA in the Making
    Future PA in the Making
    Miesiąc temu

    I do alot of the things you mentioned without even realizing it. I love Peaky Blinders it is a brilliant show, If you haven't seen it check it out.

  63. Autobot
    Autobot
    2 miesięcy temu

    The author/commentator is so charismatic that he deserves his own SPECIAL episode!

  64. Chigozie Ananaba
    Chigozie Ananaba
    Miesiąc temu

    “He comes last in every race, poor boy. Poor boy if the race was important” 😂

  65. SELF PEACE
    SELF PEACE
    5 dni temu

    Trauma-Makes him more tremendous throughout everything, I knew that because my past was full of harmful incidents not many people know about that, Thomas Has returned after world War he was traumatized and he knew how much pain he's been through

  66. Anderew Handbrige
    Anderew Handbrige
    Miesiąc temu

    He’s one of those men where when they speak it’s actually important and sharp.

  67. CarsonECA
    CarsonECA
    2 miesięcy temu

    David Wright from Survivor would be a great example of someone who had the worst confidence and by the end of his season was one of the most confident people in the room. I hope you guys can cover him because he would be a great example of someone who built that internal confidence by taking risks and understanding the world around him was less scary than he thought. Keep up the good work!

    1. stuntmastermonkey
      stuntmastermonkey
      2 miesięcy temu

      agreed cover him^^

  68. Zappy
    Zappy
    2 miesięcy temu

    I learnt the carrot stick approach to remuneration requests from my last manager. Used it to obtain a promotion and solidified my position within a new team.

  69. Ivan Stayner
    Ivan Stayner
    4 dni temu

    It's hard to threaten a man with death, when the man isnt scared to die.

  70. JackRussel Pupper
    JackRussel Pupper
    Miesiąc temu

    I really enjoy listening and watching these helpful informative times you are posting. It is one of the most helpful channel. I hope many who are concerned about the situation you’re mentioning to watch and listen carefully and attentively, and for their sakes Sign Up with the Charisma, Personal Improvement Classes! All of it will help build better people, society overall. As I’d said, your channel and the specific informational topics will better build all of us to be better. Even those who may already possess these skills would find Room for improvement. Thank you. It is a very valuable channel! 👍😊

  71. LordDaveKoresh
    LordDaveKoresh
    Miesiąc temu

    learning body language from fiction is folly. easy to look confident when you are written in for the next couple of seasons eh.

  72. Farizi Kun
    Farizi Kun
    2 miesięcy temu

    I've tried the first tips (move slowly and relaxed) and "unintentionally" did it in front of my mother. She told me to do dishes when I was just arrived from gas station. I slowly stop at the terrace, gaze straight to her eyes. Then nodding Her reaction was: "Please don't do that again. Some people may feel intimidated and beat you later." Conclusion, the tips was definitely legit.

    1. Hysterical
      Hysterical
      3 dni temu

      @Ex nihilo nihil fit how is my interpretation weird? He literally just said his ma warned him to not do it as it could lead him to getting beaten. How is that commanding respect? How is that legit?

    2. bill bill
      bill bill
      3 dni temu

      Then the dishes clapped.

    3. Magdalena
      Magdalena
      5 dni temu

      😭😭😭

    4. Jan Mac
      Jan Mac
      15 dni temu

      Don't mess with your mother 😄

    5. Hysterical
      Hysterical
      28 dni temu

      @La Guarida de Chaz I just can't see that. To me, if a person does this to me or people in my area, it is taken as quite the negative thing, it means you shouldn't be trusted, and people should keep an eye on you till you leave. I genuinely see nothing about commanding respect or anything remotely positive.

  73. Damian Lopez
    Damian Lopez
    2 miesięcy temu

    Difficult to do especially if you suffer from paranoia or panic attacks or an anxious disorder. Even mild schizophrenia can hamper your ability to have good body Language.

  74. MrSwitchblade327
    MrSwitchblade327
    2 miesięcy temu

    Probably the greatest, well written casted and acted, character and show ever in a series

    1. Ex nihilo nihil fit
      Ex nihilo nihil fit
      Miesiąc temu

      How many series have you watched in your life?

  75. Austin Lang
    Austin Lang
    Miesiąc temu

    Very good video, but important to underscore the fact that his character was naturally charismatic on top of these things. Plus he lead in the most extreme of situations in WW1. He lost an aspect of his humanity in the war thus making death a kindness, a release so to say. So although you can learn to project not being afraid Tommy’s internal lack of fear is more from the war than an actual internal lack of fear. These perfect storm type ppl exist. And when these people upgrade their natural skills with things like you talk about, they become ppl like JFK or Winston Churchill etc. some people are just natural leaders. Again great video

  76. John Hendrixson
    John Hendrixson
    Miesiąc temu

    Tommy is also a WW1 vet. His PTSD is mistaken for Confidence.

    1. John Hendrixson
      John Hendrixson
      Dzień temu

      @Fonda William That PTSD is fake. Clearly, millions of people worldwide are experience mental stress post Traumatic experience. I'm not saying each case isn't unique, but the cases are real.

    2. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      Dzień temu

      What don't u believe, and why?

    3. Ru White
      Ru White
      7 dni temu

      @Fonda William well its definitely lost its meaning. apparently everyone has ptsd these days.

    4. John Hendrixson
      John Hendrixson
      13 dni temu

      @Fonda William i don't believe you.

    5. Fonda William
      Fonda William
      13 dni temu

      PTSD IS OVER AND MISDIAGNOSED ALL THE TIME. THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS PTSD AS IT IS SO BROAD IN DEFINITION IT IS VAGUE AND DUBIOUS AND HAS NO MEANING.

  77. Jorn-Judah Mahabir
    Jorn-Judah Mahabir
    3 dni temu

    I agree with everything in this video except when he says, "...while you don't want to be like Tommy Shelby in every way;..."

  78. raub columbo
    raub columbo
    2 miesięcy temu

    Could this apply the same way to Michael Scofield from Prison Break ? Also, another great character to analyze would be Hank Moody from Californication or Patrick Jane from The Mentalist ;)

  79. HijaDelMar6
    HijaDelMar6
    2 miesięcy temu

    There's definitely something to be said about a confident stare. A couple years ago, I was walking into the drugstore and this man comes up right behind me. He's walking right behind me, right on my heels, with his body kind of 'spooning' me like trying to separate me from the rest of the store, and he tells me he's following me, compliments me on my looks, asks if I have a boyfriend, if my boyfriend will beat him up if he talks to me, that kind of jazz. I continue to make my way to my coveted TP, humoring him to a few 'hmm!..' and 'you don't say!..' along the way. I make it to TP island, and by then I've about had enough of his smothering, so I don't know what his question is in that moment, but I just turn my head to him, stare for a second, exhale loudly...... And I think I was going to tell him something along the lines of 'look, good sir, can a gal collect her monthly supply of TP without becoming a target to a pimp?..' The thing is, instead what happened is I blinked at that point, and between me closing my eyes and re-opening them, the dude had gone from standing right next to me to being a few yards away making a quick exit to the back door. I was left almost disappointed of having been robbed of my snarky remark...

    1. HijaDelMar6
      HijaDelMar6
      28 dni temu

      @RAJU BHAI Sorry for my late reply. I think the bottom line is that a would-be predator stops being one the second the 'victim' refuses to play that role... It takes 2 to tango, as the saying goes... ;)

    2. Ex nihilo nihil fit
      Ex nihilo nihil fit
      Miesiąc temu

      What's TP?

    3. RAJU BHAI
      RAJU BHAI
      2 miesięcy temu

      A lot of things comes into play regarding your situation ofcourse I am glad you made it out and yup confidence triggered him to fled away, i mean intially he might have thought that he's the one who's following you but after that glare i mean after travelling quite a distance to the place where you gave that glare , he might have thought that you are the one who's leading to your turf and touch me if you can vibe in my turf kinda thing

  80. Zamkuma
    Zamkuma
    Miesiąc temu

    Me being a shy, quiet introvert people are always shocked that I can hold eye contact so well. It’s my biggest flex. I also only speak when spoken to.